| 21. If something my partner wants seems stupid, I should remain quiet, and obey. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 22. If my partner tells me to jump off a cliff, I should find one and jump. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 23. If my partner tells me to do something I think will injure myself, I should do it - they know best. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 24. My partner should think for themself, but ultimately defer to me. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 25. My partner better not DARE displease me, or they will pay dearly. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 26. The idea of "owning" my partner is sick and abusive. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 27. I like to feel like I'm owned by my partner, not just 'with' them. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 28. I like to give pleasure even more than receive it. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 29. I like to please my partner. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 30. Neither Partner should direct the relationship. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 31. I want my partner to tell me what they want/like. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 32. I'm the same "me" whether I'm in a relationship or not. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 33. My partner has the right to make me do ANYTHING they want. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 34. I like to choose my own clothes -- I know what looks best on me. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 35. Men/Women earned the right to be respected, and I'm not giving it back! |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 36. I feel something is missing in me when I don't have someone else to think about. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 37. My partner's wishes don't really matter -- they should do as told. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 38. I'm perfectly capable of making decisions; I just don't want to! |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 39. My partner may question my wishes, but they will always obey. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 40. I feel more 'fulfilled' when I have someone I can make happier. |
Disagree |
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Agree |